I'm dying so much XDXDXDXDXD!!
I remember this too well! All of us j-fashion people were standing in a line to get photographed by some pro-photgraphers... and there was this young girl wanting to take a picture with Eivind (there was a lot who wanted that... you know, he's azn AND hot.)
In first picture she just stood beside him, but in second picture she like... did what she does in that picture. I don't quite recall what she did, but I think she put her head up against his, and Eivind was like "WOAH *dodge*" (he looks a bit stiff and uncomfortable in the picture too XD), and at first I was like
"Excuse me wtf r u doing?" but Eivind stood in front of the line and I stood almost in the back, so well, she couldn't really know he was taken.
I ended up being very amused, and it's not really that that botheres me, that you know, he's my ~*bf*~;
I'm usually very easy to make jealous, but honeslty, I'm kind of /care in attitude against weeaboos who want... a piece of Eivind (XD). Please believe me when I say that I don't think too high of myself, but I think a lot of people also feel the same way: The average weeaboo isn't exactly the nemesis of the time, especially when it comes to being... attractive. (I am talking in general. Because I
have seen quite a few effin hot wapanese XD)
I remember that we joked and said to Eivind: "These pictures will end up somewhere on the internets, and there you will be known as "MY JAPANEEZ BOYFRIEND, YUKI-SAN", and honestly, I wouldn't be surprised. :'D
ANYWAY, the thing I kind of want to rant about is ... WHO DOES THIS TO ANYONE SOMEBODY HAS
JUST MET? Barely talked to, you know! I mean what.the.fuck? Intimate territory, anyone?
There were these free hugs-people at Desucon who hugged people who didn't even WANT hugs. They didn't RECIEVE hugs, which is the point of it!
They just gave them anyway when people didn't even wish for hugs or clearly stated "NO."One came up to me with his arms spread, and I backed away and shook my head with a sceptical smile,
but he still hugged me anyway! LOL WTF. He/she (I'm kind of unsure about it's gender XD) was pretty young, but he/she should still be able to read
body language.
I read that some cosplayers got their costume ruined because of this, and
babydollaxolotl's Moitié jsk got white stains on it that wouldn't go away.
There were also a gang who kept on
SCREAMING FUCKING OUT LOUD that "WE GIVE FREE HUGS, HUGS FOR FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!" (Yes, they said it in English too). It ruined the mood a bit, and I actually found it sort of creepy.
It should be common fucking sense that not everyone likes hugs from total strangers (and behaving nice is also something you should... know about).
I must be honest and say that I don't REALLY mind being touched by someone I've just met (that sounded very slutty), but I don't like it when some stranger comes up to be and hugs me against my will, and I don't like it when I get bad conscience just because these free huggers look sad/dissappointed/angry at me when I say "No" to a free hug (I WAS IN A RUSH OK? ;_; I TRIED TO FI
ND PEOPLE I GOT SEPARATED FROM ;___;).
Not to mention that it's a convetion for japanese cutlure...
It should be very obvious that there's a lot of people with social phobia/anxiety attending.With that said, I guess a reason for this hug-raping could be that those hug-rapers lack social abilities as well :vvv
I hope this problem will be "fixed" 'till next year... I read that they're going to make a few rules on this whole free hug thing on next Desucon. I really hope people will listen to them!